1.29.2005

JANUARY 29, 2005 Winter in Coastal Georgia

Unlike many of my friends, acquaintances and colleagues, the winter weather wreaks havoc in my life. Being ill prepared for freezing temps, things get extremely quiet here when the temps do drop below freezing. Many businesses, likewise, are forced to shut down.

We have had several consecutive nights of temps dipping into the low 20's. It is necessary to leave a faucet running to prevent major plumbing issues. Personally, I opt to run a sprinkler on a bush that I've been trying to eliminate for 10 years. It makes for an appealing site the next morning, icicles on every branch, with a nice sheet of ice around the base of the bush. I've posted a couple of pictures of this "extravaganza" at the end of this post. But those I've made mention of earlier will probably scoff at this. Hey, but that's okay.

Having been fortunate enough to obtain all three extended versions of the Lord of the Rings, I've loaded my DVD player with them and have immersed myself into a marathon of Hobbits, Wizards, Orks, Elves and Dwarfs and men. It's a fair assumption that I've totally enjoyed every additional second that has been incorporated into the "theatrical" version. Things left unclear become crystal. Things that were cloudy are no longer shrouded in shadow. Man, I hated that this series has ended. After developing a kinship with all the characters, it has been much like losing a best friend or beloved family member. I felt the heavy burden of the ring, the passion of Samwise, as well as the steadfastness of Aragorn. At the same time I both despised and pitied Golum, but the sense of relief as he met his demise was overwhelming. For me, the most moving single line of the film was spoken by King Aragorn to the 4 little hobbits. "My friends, you bow to no one!" Wow! Then as all present bowed before Frodo, Sam, Pippin, and Merry the emotion overwhelmed me and...what's this? Is something in my eye? Why is my throat tight?
I guess that set me up for the endings. Each of them powerful in their own right. But an uplifting message made for fine fare.


1.28.2005


Icicle Bush



Icicle Bush different view



1.21.2005

JANUARY 20, 2004 BACK IN TIME REVEALED....THE STRAYS THAT WON MY HEART!

Let's go back to the beginning of 2004. This particular incident took place in February, even before I began this blog. Okay...picture this...warm sunny day..around 7 a.m. My dog Boots, wakes me to go out. His normal routine seems to never change. He goes out, makes his rounds, does his business and returns home. When he barks at the door, he has learned over our 8 years together, that I will allow him back inside. I've learned that if I fix the screen door so that it stays open and push the main door to a partially closed position that Boots can come in on his on. The downside is that he doesn't close the door. This day was no different than hundreds of others.

I was washing up the breakfast dishes when I looked out the kitchen window only to see Boots chasing a squirrel. Wondering how he got out there after I had just let him in minutes ago, I went to investigate. I went outside and called to him and he came running over. While enroute to me, another dog met him halfway and the two of them came to me. Obviously, though the first animal resembled Boots, it was not him. Both of the dogs that came to me, kept their distance for a bit. The Boots look- alike finally trusted enough for a pat on the head, so while taking this opportunity, I began massaging his ear..only one at first. He began trusting me all the more, so I reached his other ear with my other hand and without flinching or withdrawing from me, he allowed me to do this. The black dog that came up with him, watching all this attention going on, finally decided he needed/wanted some too. So there we are the three of us, friends at last.

It should be said that strays are attracted to me for some reason. Perhaps they can smell that there is a soft-hearted sucker living here? Or perhaps there are other forces at work. I'm not sure. I know Boots found me 8 years ago, and 8 years later we are still devoted one to the other. This is another story for another time.

So, I named the two animals. The Boots look-alike became Chadwick (Chad for short) and the black lab-looking pup became Thadeus (Thad for short). Because of the size of the animals, Thad (about 5-6 months old at most) was already as big as Chad. They were both just a tad smaller than Boots. My house is small and my yard is not fenced. Boots is a house dog, but the small house is not large enough for all of us. I called the nearby Humane Society, but they said it would be 3 weeks before they could take them, so I called animal control but they wouldn't take them because I'm from out of their county. So for the time being my options were limited.
It didn't take long for Chad and Thad to grow attached, and after the 2nd feeding, when I would yell out "dinner time", they came running. These dogs learned quickly how to let me know they wanted a belly rub. A pat on the head prompted a quick roll to the belly-up position and total ecstasy as their bellies were rubbed simultaneously.
Both seemed to have learned their names and came immediately when called.
About three days before the humane society could take them, a tragedy. A near by neighbor knocked on the door to let me know that my dog had been run over. They told me they were sure it was Boots (everyone in the community knows Boots--after all, he is the neighborhood socialite). Boots came to the door with me, and they and I realized it wasn't Boots. I knew it was Chad, however. Sadly, I went to check and my worst fears were realized. I'd only been taking care of Chad for about 2.5 weeks, but the attachments were already manifest. Yep, I cried. Not sure what made me more unhappy. Was it the fact that he had been run over, or the fact that I had taken him in to protect him from harm and failed so miserably? All of the most horrible thoughts ran through my mind as I covered Chad with a sheet and lifted him into the trunk of my car. As I laid Chad to his final rest, the tears ran down my cheek as I remembered how eargerly he ran to me, how much he enjoyed having his belly rubbed, and how anxious he was to have some one love him. Heck, I am crying as I write this. Oops. I'm proof reading and crying again. I tell you. S I G H!!!

Thadeus and Chad had apparently been out on their own together. Thad seemed to try to emmulate Chad. Of course Thad was still a puppy and was forming his own distinctive personality. Yes, personality. All pups have them and each is distinct in its own right. Thad became even more attached to me. Let me point out that Boots, though tolerent, does not appreciate all this attention that he's not getting, and you can see this in the collage photo of them. He looks completely exasperated . He has been the whole cheese for so long, well, he just sort of backed off. He was never aggressive toward Thad or Chad.
Well, after the Humane Society refused to take in Thad for the 2nd time, I took him to Florida with Boots and me to see how he would react to Doug and his dogs. Thad was afraid and the other dogs were aggressive with him. He would not let anyone else touch him, and would run to me for comfort. After 5 days this did not change so after Doug said that he was afraid of Thad because he had growled at him, we (Boots, Thad and I) returned to Georgia. I stopped by animal control on the way home. I was told that they could not take animals from out of the county. I begged and pleaded and requested that they see Thad. Boots sitting in the front seat was totally unconcerned. I opened the back door, driver's side, and called out in a babyish voice “Thadeus. Thadeus, come here baby. Come on.“ He immediately wagged his tail and came to me for attention. The animal control person said, “You're killing me, you know. Okay, but you can't tell anyone about this. Take the animal inside." See, I promised not to tell anyone, but I am writing about it with no names to protect those concerned enough to act! Thanks for that!

I expressed concern about impending “put down“ but my fears were allayed. It seems that after his quarantine, he would adopt quickly because he seemed to be a frisky puppy. This type of dog is in demand. I was guided to the kennel. After the door was opened, I put Thad down inside the kennel. He licked me one last time which brought on an immediate torrent of tears. As I finally walked away, I turned my head to look back. The sight will be ingrained in my mind for the rest of my life. He was standing at the door, front paws on the wire door, looking and howling toward me. It broke my heart and the torrent of tears continued with renewed intensity. For the 2nd time, trying to protect, I've forsaken the bond that had formed and walked away from a new friend. That was the last time I saw Thadeus. I hope his story goes on and that his new friends and family enjoy him and love him at least one-half as much as I did. I'm terribly sorry that Chad did not have the same opportunity. Terribly.

But, like Thad, my story goes on. The road takes me places sometimes that I don't expect..even when the road is right here at home. Let's jump ahead now to October. The last week of October when my friends from England were here. The time with them is always fun, exciting and otherwise fillled with love. The day before their departure we took our trash to our local dumpster site (we don't have garbage pick-up in our very rural community). As I drove up the ramp to the dumspters, I saw a little black pup on the left of the embankment. I stopped the car, popped the trunk open, and walked toward the pup. The pup looked like it wanted to come to me, but retreated down the embankment. Not letting myself be shunned, I followed. “Oh my goodness,“ I called out. I'm sure you're not going to believe this...I barely did myself. Low and behold there were two more pups hiding behind a small pile of garbage. My friend with me, got out of the car and followed my lead down the embankment. Her amazement equalled mine, and once we managed to gather the pups into our arms, we knew that we could not leave them there alone. They were only 6-7 weeks old and “inspection” (if you know what I mean?) revealed evidence that all were female. One black, two reddish brown rode quietly and still on our laps back to the house. They were put in the back room along with a bowl of food and water. They gobbled the food, then walked through the bowl of water 2 or 3 times before they stopped for a drink. Can you believe that they let us know, at this young age, that they needed to get outside to take care of business (the poop business). Only a couple of puddles in the back room and I'm not sure it wasn't just spilled water. They had found a temporary home and a little girl, Sue's daughter Ania, that was happy as a clam to have 3 pups to pet and pamper. That night was not fun. Doug's two dogs were not extremely happy with the new arrivals. We spent most of the night shushing them and of course it disturbed the babies and their cries were heard most of the night. The next morning Sue made calls to shelters for assistance. She finally found one in Savannah that would receive them if we could get there within the next two hours. We quickly loaded the pups into a box and off we go (Sue, her daughter, Ania, and Doug). We arrived at the Animal Control Intake gate. It was locked of course, with a sign instructing whomever needed assistance to honk the horn. We did so and received the attention of the intake personnel. Upon seeing these cute little babies, her comment was, “I need to call my brother right now. He's been looking for a pup like this and they seem so healthy and active.“
Another car pulled up with a mom and her daughter. They were curious to see inside the box. I heard the daughter say, “Oh mom, this one is so cute. Can we take it?“ Her mom told her that it was fine with her. I didn't feel badly this time as I knew, with no doubt, that these three little baby girls would find a home after their quarantine period was completed. Two had already been “promised“ before we drove off.
Please feel free to see all of the forlorn pups at the link below. I'm happy that we were able to share a moment in time with them and that the future for them looked very optomistic.


Chadwick and Thadeus



Collage from left to right top to bottom is Thad at the birdbath, Chad looking to the left, Boots taking a drink, Boots and Thad having a drink, poor Boots sitting there in disgust!



How could someone just leave these cuties to their own accord? It's beyond me to understand. 3 Stray Dumpster Pups



The 3 Dumpster Damsels




Boots loves the dock and always hunts things to chase


Boots loves to Give Kisses and note that he has been shaved for the summer




January 19, 2004 THE PUPS HAVE TAKEN OVER....AND THAT'S A GREAT THING!!

Since my previous post regarding the birth of the pups I've realized something that I most likely knew, but was attempting to deny. Being there when the pups were born and assisting in their delivery (like my help was really needed) gave me sense of pride and something even more. Holding those tiny little pups in the palm of my hand, checking their little bodies to make sure all was ok, watching them grow and learn, and my favorite thing, having them flock around us for attention. I would get down on my knees with my face close to the floor and call out to them all. They would come running and clamor to get up to my face and excitedly lick my nose, cheeks and every once in a while, my lips. Puppy breath, to me, is a comfort aroma. Too bad that it doesn't last into adulthood.

Anyway, the something more was the topic from which I strayed for bit, but only in a sense of explaining the reason/cause of the something more. The attachment grew strong over the first four weeks. I was present for the adoption, and in most instances brought the pups out to greet the new master(s). All of course were wearing litter bands around their necks (not the masters) just in case (so we wouldn't confuse which pup was which). All pups had been chosen weeks prior to adoption (and we didn't want any mix ups). In all instances you could see the excitement in the new master(s) and of course my pride in all of them and how spectacularly they presented themselves. What wasn't seen (hopefully) was the conflict within that only manifested itself physically as the pups were taken away. That was gut wrenching for me.
Did you notice how ineffectively I steered away from the topic again? Yes, it's almost certain that you did, but did you realize that you are still with me and that I'm still trying to deny it. But not any longer. Walking through my house it's obvious that I was/am currently obsessed (maybe that's not the right word) with the pups and the mom, so much so, that I felt/feel as if Boji and her pups were my very own. Would even you, the reader, believe that they are not? Well, that's true! Boji is owned (not sure that's the right word either) by my good friend Doug. I was just blessed with being there for the big event and the subsequent weeks. Let's get real for a minute. I was there for the entire 14 hours of the births, delivering, worrying, and all the other things that happen (some I would have never thought possible). I never imagined that I could do anything to assist this miracle. Surprised that without really thinking about it, I just did what needed to be done when it needed to be done without hesitation or reservation. I can remember it like it was yesterday. Especially the weeks following their births, however I was not there for a week. That's the week they opened their eyes for the first time and began trying to walk. But I was there the following week and was amazed with how much they had progressed. Even more surprising was they seemed to remember me, especially Charley and Besame. They would always, I mean ALWAYS, be the first in line to kiss my face and the last to leave.
Doug was partail to Teddy Jr. I believed that was unwarranted as I felt it was just because Teddy Jr. was named after the sire (Teddy belongs to his sister). I truly felt, since Doug was going to keep a pup from Boji's litter, that he should keep Charley, the first born pup. Even his brother was encouraging him to keep Teddy Jr. (I felt for the same reason). I wouldn't let up about it. Every time we took the pups out, Charley demonstrated exceptional behaviors and always seemed the most affectionate of all (but they were all very affectionate). Besame in the same light, but a bond that grew from the facts that not only was she the last pup, but because we were afraid she wasn't going to make it. I took opportunity each time to point this out to Doug and anyone else around. Not only when the pups were present, but anytime a conversation about the pups arose. That was often, as the pups were the dominating presence for the time being.
Back to the obsession. I just have difficulty staying on this topic. I believe I'm still in denial. But admittedly, I've removed all pictures from every frame in my house and replaced them with pictures of the pups. My two favorite pictures are, well, just pick two from the posted pictures. Any two you pick would be correct. From “Dinner Time“ and “Charley in Hand“, to Boji and Charley stting in the Chair. Notice how cutely Charley tilts his head in a curious mind. It's as if he's saying, “What's up? What? Something terrific?“
Charley is beginning to resemble Boji more each day. He was almost jet black at birth with a single tiny white spot (almost like a . dot) and a larger white spot on his chin. (Besame was identical down to the same white markings). As Charley has grown, the white dot on his chest has grown considerably and now his entire chin (is that what you call it?) is completely white. His color has become more and more silver and he's more adorable everyday.
I am thankful that a few of the new masters are sharing photos of their pups with Doug. It's great to see them as they continue to grow (at the end of January 8 months). Wow! It's also great to see Boji and Charley (Thanksgiving and Christmas most recently). They love it here in Georgia where I live. With no leash laws and much space in which to run and investigate, they both seem to love it and take every opportunity to get out and about. We walk down to the dock and they explore the entire time. Once, a flock of pelicans and a couple of commorants were on the dock. Startled, the birds made their calls of danger, and with a great commotion flew away. It startled Charley so, that he ran behind Doug and me, cowering and yapping until the birds were out of sight. Chicken dog you say?? No, he's just cautious! After all, he was outnumbered!
So now you know a lot more and the truth is out. I love the pups (all of them still) as if they are my very own, that I'm obsessed with them to the point of absurdity. Don't know about you, but I believe this is a good thing...a very good thing...but I've another post for later with the pups I recently rescued with a couple of pictures of them and a heart warming story as well.
No pictures for this post except the album from the previous post. There you can see all the pups..and pick out my two favorites..remember, any two will do.
Notice Charley sleeping..check out the tiny white spots and how black he is..then go to the recent pic of he and Boji sitting in the chair! Quite a difference, eh? Here is the link again so you don't have to go back for this:
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/gblakesmith3/album?.dir=/d809&.src=ph&.tok=phnpEYCB7YkpZzAD

The link below shows Boji, Teddy (the father of this litter) and Molly (a Teddy pup from a previous litter with a pup from up north).

1.15.2005

BACK IN TIME...THE PUPS ARE BORN MAY 31, 2004

It began with a yell, “BLAKE, COME QUICK, HELP!” What? Oh no. I'm coming. As I sprang from my bed at 3:00am, I knew it was happening..and I arrived to see the first pup, still in the sac. The sac was torn, the chord was cut, and the pup was given to mom to clean and lick. We thought it would come much faster, but of course it wasn't going to be easy on us. After a 1.5 hour interim, the next pup was taken out of its sac and again the chord was cut, the pup given to mom and she knew now what to do. It kind of grossed us out when mom ate the afterbirth.. not a pretty site. I'm telling ya. But she did this after each pup..all 9, that's right...9 of them.
They were all named prior to this by none other than ME. So male names were Charley, Tommy, Teddy Jr.

Girl names: Betty, Sally, Sue. Luna, Georgia, Besame(this is spanish for kiss me).

Well, Charley was the first, followed later by Tommy, then Sue, Sally, Teddy JR., Luna, Georgia, and Besame. The problem was after Georgia, we assumed she was through. It had already been 13 hours so who wouldn't think she was done. After about an hour, I went in to check...and a good thing too, as Besame was still in her sac. I yelled out, the others came, and we removed the sac. Poor tiny pup seemed to have mucous in her airways, so with a turkey baster, we sucked some of the blockage away. Breathing trouble prompted an emergency visit to the vet..remember it's Memorial Day....and got her on the road to recovery. Besame was absolutely perfect and so kissable..wow!

We got to watch them as they progressed. The seemed to grow quickly and from the first vist to the vet (3 to 5 ounces for each pup) to the last visit prior to adoption..3 to 5 pounds. Amazing that we had them trained to do their business outside prior to adoption. Doug kept them in his shower stall with bedding and water. They were taken out every 2 hours..and fed twice daily. Mom began weening them after 4 weeks. She didn't appreciate them tugging at her belly...those new teeth are sharper than tacks. So twice daily the pups were fed with a proper puppy food soaked in milk replacement to make a sort of gruel. They loved it and all would gather around thw two dishes placed down for them. For certain, nothing was wrong with their appetites. Anyway, when the shower stall was opened, mom was out first..and they all followed after her outside to the pool deck and through the door to the grass. By 4 weeks they were using the doggie door to get into the grass on their own. Part of this part of the yard was divided off by a chicken wire fence because of the dirt and newly planted grass. We watched, later, as they each crawled up the chicken wire and tumbled into the forbidden zone. Little loveable rascals...all of them. Talk about chow hounds--- boy could they eat, and became fat as little butterballs by the end of 6 weeks. Unfortunately we lost one pup the 2nd morning. We aren't sure what happened, but we were saddened by the loss.

We were preparing for our upcoming trip to England, so Doug did his best to have them all adopted out of our care before our trip (this was hard, as we had already grown quite attached to them all). All but two, and his parents kept them here in Georgia until our return. They also dropped off one in Jacksonville on their way to Georgia.

Doug kept Charley (I think because I pushed him) as he was the first born. He is a loveable, affectionate fur ball. He loves giving kisses..and now will give kisses when asked...and if he can do it...even without asking. He also chews anything that he can get in his mouth. He loves to bring in things from outside, i.e. sticks, weeds, rocks...but he'd rather chew on leather (shoes, luggage, belts) if he gets a chance. I suppose at some point this will diminish..please!

Here is a link to photos of the loveable rascalian furballs..

Charley in Hand..5 minutes old! Ahhh!



Dinner time at the Teats



Box-O-Pups



My Boy Charley



Mom and pup eye to eye



Puppy Love
Betty in Red and Besame in Green



Pup's First Walk



Mom with hungry pups



Charley in the pool week 10



Sue yawning with Betty to the left and Charley in the back



Teddy Jr. at your service!



Teddy Jr. now Gunther on the right at 21 weeks. Adorable don't ya think?



Betty(red) and Besame(green)



Besame now Sisi is just as cute as ever and seemingly extremely happy



Boji and Charley



Charley on the left, Boji to the right and I'm stuck in the middle with you!



What's going on? Inquisitive Charley



Blake with a lap full of "furry love".



Doug with his arms full of Charley



1.03.2005

NEW YEAR 2005

Wow! It's 2005...and I don't believe we haven't self-destructed yet. With some folks doing their best to take God out of everything, the Muslim terrorists wanting to kill us all for being Americans and/or Christians as well as the war in Iraq...well, we've just about got our hands full. The winter storms up north..the tsunami (how about this for a new word for your vocabulary--tidal wave) earthquakes and mudslides in California and the hurricanes (typhoons..politically correctness) in the gulf states. I'm sure that we all know someone that has been affected by any or all of these things.
The best words of wisdom that I can give to anyone, even those that wish to take God out of everything, God is still in control and if God is with you, who can be against you?
The peace and comfort we all need is no further away than our knees to the floor! A heart felt talk with our Creator and Savior is all it takes. I'm telling you now....get on your knees and pray. Keb Mo recorded a blues number. The lyrics are posted below...so for 2005 and the rest of your journey...”HAND IT OVER”.

If your problems Won't go away
And you're worried Both night and day
Hand it over
Get on your knees and pray
If you're sick
Feeling low
Got no money
Got nowhere to go
Hand it over
Get on your knees and pray
Hand it over
Hand it over
Give it up, give it over
Hand it over
Get on your knees and pray
Ain't no mountain
You cant climb
Ain't no answer
You can't find
All you need is a hand to hold
I´ll heal your body
And feed your soul
If the road is dark
And you can`t find your way
Just let the spirit light the way
Hand it over Get on your knees and pray !
We all have different roads to travel. We don't know how long these roads will be or what may come along the way. Some times will be wonderful and exciting while some will be chaotic and very, very difficult. I thank God everyday that our roads have at least intersected at some point..and that we may have traveled together for a time. I just want everyone to know that whatever comes along during our journey that we are not on our roads alone. Even when you are by yourself, you are not alone. God loves you....so do I. My thoughts and prayers are with you all for now and the New Year that it be filled with good health, prosperity and love. May God pour out his blessings on you!